a single starfish there did lie
all alone it caught my eye
washed up shallow and then to sand
trapped alone; caught on land
I looked around; alone I stood
like the starfish – brotherhood
enjoy the moment, brother mine
before our light fails to shine
a single pair there did lie
all alone under blue blue sky
~for Ruby~
(Note: TSY is excited to share this moment of self-reflection from new contributor Marie. )
These 3AM travels provoke a certain kind of wanderlust that’s only found in a few of us. It’s all about embracing the journey and engulfing every single moment that you have, with the people you love most, or by yourself.
I’ve spent quite a lot of time traveling by myself. The solitude is a sanctuary for self-discovery and understanding. There is not much that is more significant than learning about yourself and the way you work, so you can improve and develop in both interactions and understanding.
Embrace the suck. It’s all chingon, hermanos.
-Marie
Note: We’re celebrating our contributors with a double dose of fun today! If you’ve ever traveled with young ones in the car, you might think they’ve been coached by Jules, a young writer who knows just what (not) to do on a road trip with your family.
During a road trip:
Ask “How much longer?” right as the car starts. Repeat question every five minutes the entire trip or until threatened by parent. When your sibling says they’re hot, instantly state that you’re cold. Continually poke said sibling, and when they smack you, cry. Whine that you’re starving, and when your parents stop and get you food, take exactly one bite and proceed to drop the rest in the car. Remember to stash the trash in every available cup holder. Immediately afterwards, announce that you don’t feel good. Promptly roll the windows down on the highway. When the car is on a deserted road in the middle of nowhere, suddenly have to use the bathroom.
At night:
Have boundless energy. Bounce around, talk loudly, and kick the back of your mom’s seat. While your dad pumps gas, don’t forget to try your very best to slide open the minivan door. Make sure to point and shout every time you see a plane. When you arrive to your destination, become suspiciously tired and have to be carried inside.
On the way back from the beach:
Be sure to track sand into the car. Once inside, shake your wet hair like a dog, splattering the windows. Then, start off the trip back by crying about your sunburn while stubbornly ignoring the fact that your mother told you wear sunscreen. Make sure the fish you smuggled in is still in its bucket of water. When the car turns, spill the water out of the bucket. Cry about the death of the fish. When you reach your house, notice that you left your towel at the beach.
On the way to an important event:
Slowly crawl into the car because you want everyone to be late for no reason whatsoever. Once inside, violently squirm in your seat because you are uncomfortable in your fancy clothing, resulting in you spilling juice on your sister’s white lace dress. After being yelled at by parents, sit quietly the rest of the way. Then, right as the car is pulling up to your destination, realize you aren’t wearing shoes.
-Jules
Note: This is our first contributor post, and it’s a great one! CK is taking us through a hike to some cool pools and ancient carvings in Mexico.
Walking into opening
dense jungle walls
ancient river carving
and smoothing blocks of cubic stone
Petroglyphs from years forgotten stand as altars
to those who have felt the words and memories.
-CK
Some people see big flakes and get their skis ready, while others put another log on the fire. Which camp are you in?
“You can’t get too much winter in the winter.” -Robert Frost
“I say to myself that I shall try to make my life like an open fireplace, so that people may be warmed and cheered by it, and so go out themselves to warm and cheer.” – George Matthew Adams
It’s important that base layers fit snugly to hold in your heat.
The AK 47 is a gas-operated assault rifle developed in the late 1940s. It was the brain child of
Mikhail Kalashnikov. He was a self-taught tinkerer, and at 26 he built this masterpiece.
The AK 47 was designed as a weapon of defense, but it has played a major role, on varying sides, in almost every military conflict since its invention.
I know a lot of shooters who turn their nose up at the AK 47. Usually for the same reasons: it isn’t accurate; it is clunky; it has quality issues. For AK owners, those are difficult arguments to dispel. Two things can not be taken from this rifle. It is cheap (in bulk or individually). It is reliable (before and after abuse). The soldier has to have reliability, and the provider has to be able to afford them. For these two reasons, the AK 47 works. Things that work are wonderful, and function can be more important than form. This is the first part of the two-part AK 47 philosophy.
When I look at the gear I have (and keep), it has one thing in common; above all else it is functional. If it does not work, it does not stay. Why would it?
I don’t want to hang out on the beach w/a sexy hot rod short board while some mushy surf is firing off. I wanna paddle out and ride that slop! I want a board that will work for me, even if it is not as cool to carry around.
It is the same way w/my motorcycle (KLR 650), truck (93 Toyota Landcruiser), snowboard (beautiful 165cm kona wood Element), etc. Some of my gear looks cool; some of it looks mean; and some of it just looks used, and that is the point. This is the second piece of the AK 47 philosophy. Tis better to participate than to contemplate.
This does not advocate hopping in w/out thought. It is very important (and fun) to plan and scheme and consider consequence, but life is dynamic, and waiting on perfection can lead to no execution. No execution is not consistent w/an adventurer’s heart.
In the age of the consumer, it is easy to loose focus. Ads and articles swirl around telling us what we need to spend our money on, so they can increase their profit margin. I hate to sound jaded, but some of these manufactures may not care about us as individuals. So we need to look after ourselves and our own philosophies.
My suggestion, look at your budget, understand your needs, and get products that work.
Keep your end game in mind. It is very easy to get stalled out on the shopping section, but don’t.
Get your gear, and go do!
See you on the battlefield.
Edgar~
It is the last week of February, and I am on a plane headed from Alberta to Texas. Tomorrow I fly from Texas to Idaho. After three days there, I return to Texas for a week. Then I’m headed back to Canada. From there, I fly to Mexico for a long weekend, and then I return to Texas.
That is my next three weeks, and I am looking forward to it. I like to travel, always have. I like to see varying places and experience them. People, landscapes, food, weather, cultures and all of their intricacies excite me. I’m an anthropologist, a theologian and a philosopher, among many other things, and I’m wandering through God’s great big world considering implications of actions observed and interacting w/the local flora and fauna as myself. I am very fortunate for this opportunity.
Edgar~
Sayulita, Mexico.
When Edgar first invited me there, I had never heard of it, and now it feels like I hear it mentioned everywhere! This eclectic, artsy little surf town is getting some travel buzz, and for good reason. It’s a great mix of locals and visitors, with a healthy dose of misfits thrown into the scene. It’s happy. It’s safe. It’s on the beach. It’s beautiful. It’s Sayulita.
Before you go:
In addition to researching where you want to stay, and what you want to do, you’ll want to check the current exchange rate and get some pesos in your pocket. Most places in Sayulita will take US currency, but they won’t give you the best rate. We’ve found the best deal is to order some pesos from your home bank before you go. Some bigger banks will have them on hand, but others will take a few days to get them for you. It’s worth it, and will save you money when you just spend like a local.
Getting there:
Flights to Puerto Vallarta are easy to find, and as long as you have some advance notice, pretty reasonable. We recommend giving yourself a couple of months to search, so you can see patterns of when prices fluctuate. Holidays are tough, as the airline industry is well aware that you’d love to go someplace warm and filled with sea air, but you can still find a deal if you get creative. Once you have your dates in mind, do some sliding around of days/times and see what works best. If you end up with a layover in Mexico City, make sure you plan for enough time to go through customs and find your way around the airport. Their second terminal is not well-marked and is up a level and a tram ride over from the main terminal. (I once had to “tip” an employee a $20 just to find the tram station, so learn from my mistakes and look for the escalator going up.)
Arrival:
The airport in PV is pretty easy. Once you flow out of customs (press the button and cross your fingers for no searches!) you’ll be ushered right into the main lobby. Don’t have a ride? No worries. Cab drivers are everywhere. If you have something arranged in advance, ignore all the people waving you over. They’ll ask where you’re going or guess where you’re going and act like they know you. A few “no gracias” waves will do the trick. Step outside and you’ll see two lanes of traffic and lots of pick ups and drop off, just like any airport, with maybe an extra dose of chaos. If your ride is arranged, they’ll be holding a sign with your name on it. If you don’t have one arranged, just tell any cabbie where you’re going. Trips to Sayulita can run you anywhere from 1000-2000 pesos, roughly $50-$100 USD. You’re expected to negotiate, so take whatever they quote you and whittle it down. If you say no to their price, they’ll probably ask you what you want to pay, so have that number in mind.
Getting around town:
Sayulita is walking city. Most of the hotels and B&Bs are right in the heart of the city, or a short walk outside of it. The beach is walkable from just about anywhere in town, so unless you like to pack a bunch of stuff with you, you’ll be fine to head over on foot. Some visitors can be seen cruising around on golf carts, since they’re easy to stash on side streets, but we’ve found these to be a bit pricey and prefer the exercise.
Restaurants and shopping:
There are good deals to be found on food and souvenirs, but like most places you have to be ready to look at little off the path. The shops right by the beach offer lots of swimsuits and clothing, but at tourist prices. Some of the best deals on blankets, hammocks, jewelry and so forth can be found right on the beach. Sellers walk the beach all day offering all sorts of wares, and they’re all ready to ask you what price you want to pay.
Some of the best food can be found right on the street, at the taco stands! The churros (fried dough) are also delicious, and the perfect post-dinner snack for your walk back to your hotel. If you’re more in the mood for a sit-down meal, there are plenty of great restaurants serving delicious seafood, pizzas, salads and of course, traditional Mexican cuisine. Prices are reasonable, and the service is almost always great.
After dinner, take a lap around the square. There are musicians, skateboarders, fire twirlers and all sorts of performers ready to wow the crowds. The vibe of the city between 9p-11p is fun and vibrant, and there are still tons of families with young ones milling about. I can’t speak to the late night crowd, but at least until 11 or so the majority of the city is just having an innocent good time.
Surfing:
If you go to Sayulita, you can rent a board for a day for about $15 USD. There’s a surf break right there on the main beach, and there are plenty of beginners paddling out on their foam boards for the thrill of their first white water rides, and more experienced surfers showing off their skills a little farther out. You can rent boards right on the beach, or at any of the surf shops in town.
If you’re an avid surfer and want more variety, there are a number of nearby breaks that the locals will help you get to, but keep in mind the best spots you may need to find yourself. Not every surf instructor wants to find tourists on his break on his only day off. But in all, folks are very friendly and if you’re looking for a wave someone will tell you what’s working that day.
Yoga:
Sayulita is a great place to practice your beach flow. I’ve enjoyed several morning sessions flowing to the sound of the waves. Because folks tend to have dinner late and then stay out late, the beach is quiet in the mornings. Surfers and yogis who want a little quiet time would do well to hit the beach before 8:00am. If you prefer to flow with a group, there are also several yoga studios on the side streets of town, and they’ll have morning and evening classes. It’s also a great place for yoga retreats, so keep an eye out for those ads and you can return to flow for an entire weekend. The instructors I’ve had have all spoken English and usually conduct their classes in a mix of both English and Spanish. For single classes, expect to pay a drop in rate of about $10 USD.
Other Activities:
Of course there other activities to explore, if you are not surf/yoga inclined. Sayulita offers horseback riding, zip lining, fishing, ATV tours and much more. You can make reservations in advance, or talk to your hotel clerk and other people in town to see what’s available. People are very friendly and eager to help you enjoy their city.
Safety:
I’ve always felt safe in Sayulita. But of course, whenever you travel you don’t want to leave common sense behind. Stay in groups when you can, but if you explore alone, stick to the main drag. Evenings are joyful, but as the night goes on, some folks transition from eating to drinking, and it can get a little loud. This is usually when we call it a night! If you do like to stay out late and enjoy adult beverages, just keep an eye on your drink and your friends. Look out for each other just like you would in your home city, and you’ll be just fine.
The fact that Sayulita is gaining in popularity is no accident. It’s a fun town that combines a beautiful beach with a vibrant cultural experience, while its reasonable prices and English-speaking residents make it accessible to all kinds of travelers. It offers adventure for the daring, and relaxation for the weary. For first-timers, it’s the perfect weekend getaway. After that, it will never be long enough.
When I look at surf and yoga, I see, and feel, many things. These two arts are often and curiously linked to one another. I had to explore the why…
To an outsider, is it simply a Ken and Barbie beach date? Active couples on vacation and participating in their gender’s sport dutifully?
Not even close…
If you strip surfing and yoga back to their essence, what is being sought? When you take this approach, it is amazing how deep the similarities run.
Yogis and surfers simply seek balance. They seek physical balance, in the pose and in the wave, but they also are searching for a sustainable balance in life through a more focused way of living. We don’t need to start chanting, and I will not be passing the platter for an offering, but that is reality. A surfer that is only chasing the rush of a single ride will never stick with the sport through its thrashings, near drownings, and other countless pains to get good enough for that ride. In the same vein, a yogi can not reach inverted sea horse without a dedication that is unaltered, by sliding feet, sore shoulders, and possible wardrobe malfunctions. These folks are dedicated beyond the moment, past a rush, and are pursuing an inner balance. With this balance comes a sense of accomplishment. The greatness of this accomplishment is understood better when dissected. The accomplishment is rooted in overcoming oneself. These are not team sports, and greatness is found in challenging yourself and overcoming our greatest opponent. They are both focused and deliberate acts to improve our mental and physical beings and self perpetuated. Soo much for Spicoli……”dude”.
How many of us avoid discussing these passions to non-believers, because of associated stigmas? Lots of hands, especially in the back rows.
How many of us use our increased level of focus to enhance our careers, relationships, and daily lives? I’ll field this one, all of us.
These benefits are coupled with a wonderful physical by-product.
We get healthy to pursue our passion, and our passions reward us with health.
Hey, everyone over here…This is a good deal!
We should stretch, and paddle, and focus….
A deliberate lifestyle is not accidental. This way of being finds its own converts. I can encourage surfing and yoga, but to what end? You can’t really convince someone to be a hard charger; that river flows from an internal well. These will be self-perpetuated by the traveler’s heart, and found by the seekers.
Edgar~
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